(1.) Kelvin, why are you single? (2.) Kelvin, look at me, look into my eyes, why are you single seriously? "Laughs" (3.) What's going on Kelvin? "Someone like you shouldn't be single" is what I get asked all the time. Like firstly, being single has nothing to do with how one looks. One must find out how he/she can thrive and make a foundation for oneself. Find what works for you, yes it will be hard, your going to struggle, Isn't that apart of life? So dust yourself off and keep grinding we only have 24hours, it's time. No not later, Now.
One should never be in a rush to make something happen because of what others are doing. So what? Have you never heard the quote, "Never rush greatness" well? Open your eyes and live for yourself. I'm not saying you must never find that perfect relationship, No, No, No. I'm saying focus on building yourself, your craft and trust me the right person will fill the mold.
I always say "life is always telling you something so open your eyes and look within" Never Ever give up, your time is Coming so believe and have faith, you ready?
Let's Talk, let's get gritty...
Having someone to connect with on a deeper level. Thats it, that's what I'm looking for. Sounds easier said than done right? Let's delve further, let's get deeper...
For me to, let's say "falling in love" with someone, "I'll say it again" they have to connect with me on a deeper level. This means bringing out the best in me in both the highs and the lows and vice versa. A relationship is 100%, we agree? To make the 100% work both must have equal effort into it right? 50/50 so it goes both ways. What I expect from the other half, I expect it to be expected of me to do, are we following? Let's continue,
Support⬅being able to support each others goals, careers aspirations and dreams. A relationship has to be about support no matter the dream we must support each other and be ready to meet in the middle, guide each other through the "shut doors phase" ⬅ it's bound to happen. And grind, grind, grind till we made it, f$$k out of here what do you mean? I've heard people not agreeing with their partners dreams, why? Why must one not agree? If you partner has a dream keep pushing until they reach success. If the dream is questionable, why not talk it out and meet half way? Instead of a solid no. If your in a good relationship with someone be ready to sacrifice and leave your ego at the door.
Ideally, we need to connect spiritually with all due respect I don't mean church, no, no, no, I mean the mind and body, space and time, what really goes on in this world, The Unknown Truth. The list can go on from opening your chakras to What's really in our foods. Once we can connect on that level...POOF
I beleive if we're in a relationship and I'm having to check your phone anxiously the relationship is over, OVER.
Finally, if I'm going out and get questioned about my whereabouts every damn second or "you shouldn't be going out without asking me" the relationship is over take your keys, because I'm gone, thats your insecurities. controlling? Possessed?
Haha, that's why I'm single. All It takes is one person to change your life forever, I'll leave you with that thought...
